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🎵 “Should I Stay or Should I Go” – EOA When Home Stops Working (The Clash)
EOA THIS is a very early conversion with DX, make sure you understand this and have this conversation with your Spouse, Children, their Parents (if applicable) so there are no surpirses later. We did an Advanced Directive we found online that was Demenita Specific
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🎵 “Fix You” – EOA Trying to Hold On to the Words (Coldplay)
One of the hardest parts of this disease for me has been watching language disappear in real time.
Not memory first.
Not personality first.
Words.
The inability to find them.
The inability to organize them.
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🎵"Mexico" – EOA When the Numbers Stop Making Sense (James Taylor)
When we started looking at memory care in the United States, the numbers were staggering.
Many facilities were quoting:
$6,000–$8,000/month
$8,000–$10,000/month
Sometimes much higher depending on care needs and location.
4 min read


🎵 “Money, Money, Money” – EOA & Medicare, Medicaid (abba)
& The Confusing Maze Nobody Prepares You For Half of this process feels like paperwork, waiting, confusion, and hold music. Let’s talk about: 👉 Medicare 👉 Medicaid 👉 SSDI 👉 Income limits 👉 What is FREE 👉 What is NOT 👉 What steps to take BEFORE you need it Because eventually most Early Onset families realize: 👉 The financial side of this disease is almost as scary as the medical side. 🧠FIRST: THE THREE BIG PROGRAMS People mix these up constantly. 💼 SSDI = Social Sec
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🎵"Help!" EOA GUIDE Medicare programs (The Beatles)
Here’s a practical GUIDE enrollment checklist and
here is your "PROMPT to use for your area to do the same"
"Tell me about the GUIDE program in (your city and state) explain if your spouse has
Medicare or Medicaid and their Diagnosis"
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🎵"I can see clearly now..." EOA Medicare and Guide (Johnny Nash)
More Navigation help, what to know about Part A/B and What does Advantage do for you, vs. Guide program
The current CMS GUIDE Model generally requires:
âś… Medicare Part A
âś… Medicare Part B
âś… Original (Traditional) Medicare as primary coverage
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🎵 “Mad World" EOA Memory Care Shopping (Tears for Fears)
"Shopping" for Memory Care at 40/50???
This is the post nobody wants to write.
Because this is the point where:
👉 The future becomes terrifyingly real.
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🎵"Clarity" EOA GUIDE Program- (Zedd/Foxes)
A Real-Life Caregiver Guide to What It Is, Who Qualifies & How to Find Help
🧠Because most of us didn’t know these programs even existed until we were already overwhelmed.
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🎵"With a Little Help from my Friends" EOA navigating Medicare (The Beatles)
The UNOFFICAL SSDI, Medicare & Medicaid Resource Guide complied by me. What Caregivers Need to Know About Disability, Medicare, Medicaid & Long-Term Planning đź’¬ Disclaimer This guide combines our lived experience with publicly available government resources and AI-assisted organization/editing to help make overwhelming topics easier to understand. đź§ FIRST: UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE Many caregivers (including me early on) confuse: SSDI Medicare Medicaid They are NOT the same
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🎵"Paper Planes" EOA Alzheimers and Medicare Part B (MIA)
IMPORTANT MEDICARE PART B CONFUSION (READ THIS EARLY)
This is the part that confused me the MOST, especially for younger Early Onset spouses still covered under employer insurance.
And honestly?
👉 The government letters explaining it are TERRIBLE.
So let me try to simplify this in caregiver language.
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🎵 “Every Rose Has Its Thorn” – EOA The Road to Disability (Cliff Notes) (Poison)
⚠️ First Advice (You May Not Expect This)
Before diagnosis—or very early on:
👉 Do NOT tell everyone yet
Why?
Too many opinions
Too much noise
Potential for people to take advantage
👉 Keep this between you and your partner while you get your plan together
Look at Finances
Look at Insurance
Look at benefits available
3 min read
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