🎵 “Money, Money, Money” – EOA & Medicare, Medicaid (abba)
- jessica97150
- Jun 2
- 4 min read
& The Confusing Maze Nobody Prepares You For
Half of this process feels like paperwork, waiting, confusion, and hold music.
Let’s talk about:
👉 Medicare
👉 Medicaid
👉 SSDI
👉 Income limits
👉 What is FREE
👉 What is NOT
👉 What steps to take BEFORE you need it
Because eventually most Early Onset families realize:
👉 The financial side of this disease is almost as scary as the medical side.
đź’¬ Disclaimer
I’m not a lawyer, insurance expert, or financial advisor—just a caregiver sharing what we learned trying to survive this system. Rules vary by state, age, work history, income, assets, and insurance plans. Always consult professionals for advice specific to your family.
đź§ FIRST: THE THREE BIG PROGRAMS
People mix these up constantly.
đź’Ľ SSDI = Social Security Disability Insurance
This is for people:
👉 Too disabled to continue working
For Early Onset Alzheimer’s:
👉 THIS is often the FIRST major step financially.
✔️ EARLY ONSET ALZHEIMER’S MAY QUALIFY FASTER
EOA may qualify under the Compassionate Allowances program, which can speed approval. Key point- THE Diaganosis must say Early Onset Alzheimers, not MCI, read the words for compasionate allowaces, print them and take to the DR, it is important they write it correctly the first time of exactly what it is. Otherwise, MCI, can house clean, greet at Walmart, etc.
✔️ WHO QUALIFIES FOR SSDI?
Generally:
Must have work history/work credits
Must be unable to work due to disability
Diagnosis must significantly impair function
⚠️ IMPORTANT
SSDI is:
👉 NOT income-based welfare
It’s based mostly on:
👉 Work history and Social Security contributions
đź’° MEDICARE = HEALTH INSURANCE (2 year wait once SSDI is approved at any age)
Most people get Medicare:
At age 65
OR
After receiving SSDI for 24 months
YES:👉 Younger Early Onset patients can eventually qualify through SSDI.
đź§ MEDICARE PART A (Usually FREE)
Medicare Part A Explained
Part A covers:
👉 Hospital-related care
Usually includes:
✔️ Hospital stays
✔️ Skilled nursing facility (short-term) (VERY SHORT)
✔️ Some home health care
✔️ Hospice care
✔️ IS PART A FREE?
Usually YES if:
👉 You or spouse worked enough years paying Medicare taxes
⚠️ WHAT PART A DOES NOT COVER WELL
❌ Long-term memory care
❌ Custodial nursing home care
❌ Ongoing assisted living
This is the part families misunderstand most.
🩺 MEDICARE PART B (Monthly Premium)
Medicare Part B Costs & Coverage
Part B covers:
👉 Medical care
Examples:
✔️ Neurologists
✔️ Doctors
✔️ PET scans (sometimes)
✔️ MRI/CT
✔️ Outpatient therapy
✔️ Durable medical equipment
đź’° PART B IS NOT FREE
Most people pay:👉 A monthly premium
Premiums change yearly and may increase with higher income.
đź’Š MEDICARE PART D = PRESCRIPTION COVERAGE
This is:
👉 Prescription insurance
Important for:
Alzheimer’s medications
Anxiety meds
Sleep meds
Mood medications
⚠️ CHECK DRUG FORMULARIES CAREFULLY
Some medications:
👉 May NOT be fully covered
Especially:
New Alzheimer’s drugs
Specialty medications
Brand-name medications
đź§ MEDICARE ADVANTAGE (PART C)
Medicare Advantage Plans
These are private insurance plans replacing Original Medicare.
Sometimes include:
✔️ Drug coverage
✔️ Dental
✔️ Vision
✔️ Gym memberships
BUT:
👉 Networks can be restrictive and you will lose the GUIDE benefits, so read all the blogs closely and decide on the questions and run your own scenario through AI or Google.
Especially for specialists.
đź’” MEDICAID = LONG-TERM CARE HELP
Medicaid is:
👉 NEED-BASED/Income restricted
And this is the program that may help eventually cover:
Nursing homes
Memory care
Long-term care services
In-home assistance
⚠️ MEDICAID HAS STRICT RULES
This is where:
👉 Income AND assets matter
Rules vary by:
State
Marriage status
Assets
Home ownership
🧠THE “SPEND DOWN” CONVERSATION
Families eventually hear:
👉 “You may need to spend down assets.”
Terrifying conversation.
This is WHY:
👉 Elder law attorneys matter SO much.
💡 THINGS TO DO 3–6 MONTHS BEFORE MEDICARE STARTS
✔️ Compare plans carefully
Especially:
Neurology coverage
Prescription coverage
Specialist networks
✔️ Confirm ALL doctors accept your plan
Very important.
✔️ Organize medical records
You’ll need them repeatedly.
✔️ Review prescriptions
Especially:
Alzheimer’s drugs
Prior authorizations
Tier costs
✔️ Ask about home health benefits
Even limited help matters.
đź§ WHAT I WISH I KNEW EARLY
DO NOT WAIT until:
👉 Crisis mode
The earlier you:
Organize paperwork
Learn terminology
Meet with attorneys
Understand benefits
The more options you may preserve later.
đź’› THINGS THAT HELPED US MOST
✔️ Elder law attorney
✔️ SSDI application early
✔️ Caregiver Facebook groups
✔️ Binders/spreadsheets
✔️ Calling programs directly instead of trusting random internet advice
đź’” THE TRUTH
This system is:
👉 Confusing
👉 Slow
👉 Overwhelming
And caregivers are expected to learn it:
👉 While emotionally drowning
🎵 Why “Money, Money, Money”
Because eventually caregiving becomes:
👉 Emotional survival
PLUS
👉 Financial survival
At the same time.
đź’ Final Thought
If you feel confused by:
SSDI
Medicare
Medicaid
Disability paperwork
👉 You are not alone.
Almost every caregiver feels like they suddenly got dropped into:
👉 A second full-time job
The important thing is:
👉 Start early
👉 Ask questions
👉 Get professional guidance
👉 Don’t panic and make financial moves blindly
One step at a time is how families survive this part too.
đź’¬DISCLAIMER:
I’m not a doctor, lawyer, therapist, or expert—just a wife trying to figure this out one day at a time. Everything shared here is based on our experience and things that have helped us along the way. Take what helps, leave what doesn’t, and always check with professionals when needed. I also use AI to help clean up my writing, organize thoughts, and pull together resources because honestly… caregiver brains are tired too. If something here helps another family feel less alone, then it’s worth sharing.




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